A video of an Indian woman performing Thiruvathirakali inside a Costco grocery store has sparked a wide-ranging debate online, with users split over whether the moment was harmless fun or inappropriate behaviour in a public place.
The clip, which was first shared on Instagram and later circulated on X, shows the woman practising Thiruvathira while shopping. A text overlay on the video reads, "When Thiruvathira practice has completely occupied your mind even while shopping." Thiruvathira is a traditional folk dance from Kerala, usually performed by women in a circle.
The Criticism
An X account sharing the video criticised the woman, writing, "Zero civic sense only brings unnecessary embarrassment to the entire Indian community!"
Others were more direct. One commenter objected not just to the location but to the way the dance was performed, saying she was showing "no respect" for the tradition by dancing with shoes on. Another wrote, "This idiot has no respect for the dance. She is doing it with shoes on!"
A commenter who identified as Indian said they found the behaviour "embarrassing and completely unacceptable," adding, "When a country gives people opportunities, jobs and a chance to build a better life, the least we can show in return is basic civic sense and respect for the rules." The comment went on to warn that a few people behaving irresponsibly could create a negative impression of millions of Indians who live and work responsibly around the world.
The Defence
But the criticism was not universal. Some users questioned what exactly was wrong with the incident if the woman was not disturbing anyone. "What's wrong? Is she disturbing anyone? Every type of person does this!" one person wrote.
Another pushed back against the idea that public spaces should always be quiet and restrained. "Should public places be calm, boring and unexpressive?" the user asked, adding that people should not expect every public space to be completely homogeneous.
One user drew a comparison with other public behaviour, writing, "So many Americans dance in public for TikTok and social media and harass people. Why is it bad when an Indian does it?"
Others felt the reaction to the video was excessive, especially given that people from many backgrounds regularly record themselves dancing or making videos in public.